Dreaming about an empty chair
The exception in this file: a chair is not reported through failure but through absence. The empty chair is one of the most quietly affecting images in the database and it belongs with the grief material.
Also searched as: a chair, an empty seat, someones chair, a chair nobody sits in
A specific person's chair, empty, is the report. Dreamers describe knowing whose it is and describe nobody being in it, and that is frequently the whole dream.
It is reported disproportionately by the bereaved and is described as sad rather than frightening.
A chair pulled out, or turned, is a small and more unsettling variant where the absence implies a recent presence.
Ordinary chairs go entirely unreported, which is the usual attention finding and is what makes the empty one stand out.
Common associations
- Absence with a specific shape, which is what makes it affecting.
- A place that belongs to somebody.
- Recent presence, in the moved-chair reports.
- Nothing happening, which is the content.
Positive readings
These are sad rather than distressing and are frequently reported as meaningful by the dreamer, and the database records that.
The bereavement material applies and those dreams are, on the whole, part of ordinary mourning rather than a problem.
Difficult readings
Waking can be hard, and dreamers describe a small fresh loss.
The moved-chair version produces the unease that presence-without-a-person always does here.
Psychological perspectives
Expectation violation accounts for the unease and the attention finding accounts for why only the empty one is reported, but neither accounts for the sadness, and the entry does not pretend otherwise.
What can be said is that grief dreams frequently work by absence rather than by presence, and this is the clearest object-level example: the dream shows nothing and means it.
Bereavement dreams are well documented and are usually reported as comforting; this is one of the few forms that is not, and it is still ordinary.
Cultural and historical
An empty place set at a table is a formal act of remembrance in a number of traditions, including in specific observances for the absent and the dead.
That means for some dreamers the image is a practice rather than a symbol, and it will carry accordingly.
What the sleep science says
Reasonably supported: expectation violation produces unease without anything present.
Well documented: bereavement dreams and their place in ordinary mourning.
Not established: any meaning for a chair.
Your own context
- Whose chair was it?
- How did you know?
- Had it been moved?
- Was that the whole dream?
If this recurs
Log gently and with the bereavement material. Dreamers who record these over time frequently find the tone softens, which is what the literature would predict.
Emotions often reported
- melancholy
- grief
- longing
- tenderness
- unease
- peace
Specific an empty chair dreams
Each of these is written separately, not generated from this page.
Questions for reflection
These are for your journal, not for us. Nothing you write is shared.
- Whose was it?
- How did I know?
- Was that all that happened?
Dream interpretation is subjective. Nothing here is a diagnosis, a prediction, or medical advice.
Sources and reviewed references
4 references. What these labels mean
- 1.The Dreams of Blind Men and Women: A Replication and Extension of Previous FindingsPeer-reviewed research
Craig Hurovitz, Steven Dunn, G. William Domhoff and Harry Fiss (1999) · Dreaming
Cited for: That congenitally blind dreamers report no visual imagery but rich non-visual sensory content, while those blinded later may retain visual dreaming.
- 2.The Scientific Study of Dreams: Neural Networks, Cognitive Development and Content AnalysisAcademic book
G. William Domhoff (2003) · American Psychological Association
Cited for: The continuity hypothesis (that dream content largely reflects waking concerns) and a sustained critique of symbolic dream interpretation as an evidential method.
- 3.Gender Differences in Dream Recall: A Meta-AnalysisPeer-reviewed research
Michael Schredl and Iris Reinhard (2008) · Journal of Sleep Research
Cited for: Dream-recall frequency as a measurable, individually stable trait, and the factors that move it.
- 4.Dreaming: A Conceptual Framework for Philosophy of Mind and Empirical ResearchAcademic book
Jennifer M. Windt (2015) · MIT Press
Cited for: A modern philosophical treatment of what dreams are, including the immersive-spatiotemporal-hallucination account and the status of dream reports as evidence.
Dreamers’ accounts
How dreams of an empty chair have gone for other people, in their own words. Nothing here is an interpretation of anyone else's dream. It is a record of what happened and what it was like.
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Related records
- SymbolTableA table in a dream is a cast list. Dreamers report who was around it and rarely report the table, and the guest list is frequently impossible in the way the party reports describe.
- PersonDead relativeDreams of the dead are extremely common in bereavement, are frequently reported as comforting rather than distressing, and are taken seriously by grief researchers as part of how mourning proceeds. What they are not is evidence of contact.
- EventSaying goodbyeOne of the most emotionally significant dreams people report and one of the least written about. A goodbye dream involving somebody who has died is a recognised part of bereavement and is usually described as a gift.
- EmotionGriefGrief dreams are a normal and well-studied part of bereavement, and a large proportion of people who have them describe them as comforting rather than painful.
- SymbolEyesEyes appear in two very different report types: eyes that will not open, which is a physical experience with a physical explanation, and eyes that are looking, which belongs with the being-watched material.
- SymbolGrassGrass is almost never the subject of a dream and is reported constantly as ground. Where it becomes the subject, it is because it is too long, and that version carries a specific and quite mild guilt.
