Dreaming about going back somewhere
Return dreams are the most reported form of nostalgia in the database, and the characteristic detail is that the place is smaller, or wrong, or already occupied by somebody else.
Also searched as: returning to a place, going back, revisiting somewhere, a place i used to live
The place having changed is the dominant report, and dreamers describe the change specifically: smaller rooms, a different colour, somebody else's things in it.
Being an outsider in a place that was yours is the emotional core, and dreamers report a specific displacement rather than sadness.
Going back and finding it unchanged is reported less often and is described as the more unsettling of the two, which dreamers usually find surprising.
The childhood home dominates, as it does across the whole database, and that entry carries the layout material.
Common associations
- A place that has changed.
- Being a visitor where you belonged.
- Unchanged, which is worse.
- The childhood home, most often.
Positive readings
These are frequently reported as valuable even when sad, and dreamers describe them as one of the few things that gives access to a place they cannot otherwise reach.
The detail can be remarkable, which the graveyard and jewellery entries also note about strongly encoded material.
Difficult readings
The displacement is real and can persist into the morning.
Where the place is connected to somebody who has died, the bereavement material applies.
Psychological perspectives
Strongly encoded environments remain available for dream construction indefinitely, which is why childhood settings dominate reports decades later.
The reported smallness is worth flagging: it is what an adult would actually experience returning to a childhood space, which suggests the dream is reconstructing from an adult body rather than replaying a memory.
That is a small observation and quite a good one, and it fits the being-a-child-again entry from the other direction.
Cultural and historical
Return is one of the oldest narrative structures there is and the homecoming is central to a great deal of literature, which makes the reading available to any dreamer.
Exile and return carry specific and heavy weight in several traditions, and for dreamers displaced in reality these dreams are not literary at all.
What the sleep science says
Reasonably supported: strongly consolidated environments remain available for dream construction across decades.
Reasonably supported: dream settings are reconstructed rather than replayed, which the inconsistent changes support.
Not established: any meaning in returning.
Your own context
- Had it changed?
- How, specifically?
- Were you a visitor?
- Could you have gone there awake?
If this recurs
Log what had changed each time. Dreamers who record this find the changes are not consistent, which is informative about how the place is being rebuilt each night.
Emotions often reported
- nostalgia
- melancholy
- longing
- unease
- tenderness
- grief
Specific going back somewhere dreams
Each of these is written separately, not generated from this page.
Questions for reflection
These are for your journal, not for us. Nothing you write is shared.
- Had it changed, and how?
- Did I belong there?
- Was it smaller?
Dream interpretation is subjective. Nothing here is a diagnosis, a prediction, or medical advice.
Sources and reviewed references
4 references. What these labels mean
- 1.The Scientific Study of Dreams: Neural Networks, Cognitive Development and Content AnalysisAcademic book
G. William Domhoff (2003) · American Psychological Association
Cited for: The continuity hypothesis (that dream content largely reflects waking concerns) and a sustained critique of symbolic dream interpretation as an evidential method.
- 2.The Content Analysis of DreamsAcademic book
Calvin Hall and Robert Van de Castle (1966) · Appleton-Century-Crofts
Cited for: The standard coding system for dream content, and the normative frequencies that later studies are compared against. The reason claims like "aggression is more common in dreams than friendliness" can be stated numerically at all.
- 3.Gender Differences in Dream Recall: A Meta-AnalysisPeer-reviewed research
Michael Schredl and Iris Reinhard (2008) · Journal of Sleep Research
Cited for: Dream-recall frequency as a measurable, individually stable trait, and the factors that move it.
- 4.Dreaming: A Conceptual Framework for Philosophy of Mind and Empirical ResearchAcademic book
Jennifer M. Windt (2015) · MIT Press
Cited for: A modern philosophical treatment of what dreams are, including the immersive-spatiotemporal-hallucination account and the status of dream reports as evidence.
Dreamers’ accounts
How dreams of going back somewhere have gone for other people, in their own words. Nothing here is an interpretation of anyone else's dream. It is a record of what happened and what it was like.
Nothing here yet. Be the first to say how this has gone for you.
Related records
- PlaceChildhood homeThe most reported dream setting there is. It usually appears altered (extra rooms, wrong layout, doors that were not there) and the alterations are more informative than the house.
- PlaceSchoolSchool dreams persist for decades after leaving and are overwhelmingly anxious, being unprepared, lost, or back without knowing why. They are one of the best-documented dream types there is.
- EmotionNostalgiaNostalgic dreams are usually about a time rather than a thing, and they cluster around transitions, as though the mind reaches back when the ground shifts.
- ActionBeing a child againDreamers regularly report being their childhood age with their adult mind, and accepting it entirely. The age is usually one where a great deal was encoded: the settings and the people come with it.
- ActionA gameGames in dreams have rules the dreamer does not know and cannot ask about, and everybody else appears to know them. That structure is the clearest statement of something the first-day, examination and competition entries each describe in part.
- ActionA secretDreamers report holding a secret of enormous importance and being unable to say what it is. The weight is generated and the content is not, which makes this one of the purest examples of the pattern this database keeps finding.
